My 22nd birthday resolution

Wow.Its September 8 once again. Time flies and feels like i have just celebrated my 21st birthday not too long ago.

I'm really Glad to spent my Birthday weekends with my friends from different walks of life. Not forgetting Lovely YiTing who Plans it all. Heard that She's unwell on my birthday but not to disappoint me, She still came out to celebrate with me. Hope she will recover FAST!

My This year resolution :

1. Time management - To be able to balance , family life , Love life , Police life , Church life and my other commitments 
2. Health - As age is catching up on everyone, and standard of living is pretty much stress then the old days, I would love to have the discipline to exercise and tone my Body. Cutting those unhealthy Food intake.
3. God Jesus - As I have been a lazy boy, I would like to take the free time i had without much distractions during Army and focus on you and Do my Quiet-time regularly. 
4. Lastly It's world peace over 

Pig-ture talking time...

Crispy Crab at Lor 7 :-] something unique i tried after so long. Thanks to Eloise , Randy & Valery + Huijun ( her Birthday 1 day before mine only )  

muffins to Replaced cake. Want to know why it's a Panda and a Dog?

Cause I'm A advert Dog lover and Huijun who is a night owl and " Panda" during the day

Adding colours to Doggies and Pandas

Cheez!! Glad to celebrated my 22nd with you little Girl!

Thanks to my secondary school buddies who took time to  celebrated this unique day at Fish & co. Glasshouse. 

Thanks coach , friend , leader and fellow cyclist from Joyriders. Cant believe she still remembers me after so long.

My lovely cell / spiritual family and we come a long long way for it . Thanks peeps!

present time from Our cell leader  Joseph Lum 

Our Birthday weekend together fellow September kid! Why you like a "sad"?

Present! Wanna thank shereen for spenting time to draw that Big Card!

Last but not least, wanna thanks dear for spending sleepless nights working on this.

Are you friend enough to be called one

How would you rate yourself as a friend in general? 

A . Someone who comes and go , look for you only when help is needed ( touch &and go )      OR
B.  One who cherish and holds friendship as important as your love one which you look for not just in need but in every aspect of life.


Been pondering over this topic after reading a friend of mine blog post in facebook as who are the one who will be there for me when things really happen. Right now i have total faith in them. But 10years down the road. Will everything change?

Am very optimistic about the people i have around me at the moment. 2 Years back i once told people that church friends are life long friends. But as i'm getting older ,It's totally not true. Some of them come looking for me only when they need help.

When i seek help, Rejection is all i got in return.  Friends choose who they want to be with and not just me choosing them. As i see the ugly side of the world more and more in my workplace and cliques.

Like the rich mixing with the rich , The Smart mixing with the smart and so on.

But what i could do is to build relationship with them. Like one of the sermons preach in Church years back. Not expecting anything in returns. Give it your best and leave everything in God mighty hands. God is the ultimate friend who comes and never go that's for sure.

As stated by "Don moen - God is good"

'Cause He's promised to never leave you

Nor forsake you and His Word is true "

Sometimes it may sound hypocrite but it's time to face the ugly truth of mankind.