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Sunday, February 28, 2010

The Great connection part 3

Your Relationship with the Opposite Sex
What About love ?
Guys: use left brain more, meaning more logical and not so emotional
Gals: use both brain meaning more emotional and know how to express themselves.
How should we treat eAch other ?

12Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. (colossians 3:12)

1. With Compassion- to understand each other. Girls struggle with image , emotions!
Guys : mature later then gals.(childish). Struggle with confidence .
2. With kindness- guys: sensitive of words.(disgusting words) Gals: use words that will built guys up. Hebrews 12:43.
3.With gentleness- Guys: they are rough creature. So physically need treat gals with cAre. Take care and protect them. Sent a girl home at night( Bible said so)

7Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
.(1 Peter 3:7)
Girls: lose control of your emotion. Say weird staff and words, then regret for saying all those.
3.Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. 4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. (1 Peter 3:3-4)

Girls must always Exercise forgiveness always to guys.
4. With Patience- guys: don't push a gal into a relationship. Practice patients.
Gals: don't rush into getting a bf due to peer pressure. If you Want to have a bf, make Jesus your bf. Waiting is something you must remember.
5. With humility- guys: god made women so that they can be our helper.
Gals: look beyond their immaturity and understand them.
6. With purity -
1 Timothy 5:2
2.older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.
Guys : must protect their purity if you really love them. ' don't screwed their purity' (sexual immorality)
Girls: Do not dress seducely. Help guys with their purity. Being sexy does not mean u are beautiful . The guy should like you for who you are and not how you look.




4 comments:

Jialiang said...

Guy are also emotion being too. It's just that we use our left brain means we do not let out or said our emotion as easily as a gal will do

Anonymous said...

Keep posting stuff like this i really like it

PastaRona said...

Joshua, I'm seriously impressed with your article. You literally post up my entire sermon. Good stuff!

Joshua said...

Jia liang: yea quite true true.. U did your research also?

Anonymos: thans dude...

Pastor ronal: haha.. i listened very hard in sermons also =D Thanks by the way. good sermon i enjoyed it =P