How would you rate yourself as a friend in general?
A . Someone who comes and go , look for you only when help is needed ( touch &and go ) OR
B. One who cherish and holds friendship as important as your love one which you look for not just in need but in every aspect of life.
Been pondering over this topic after reading a friend of mine blog post in facebook as who are the one who will be there for me when things really happen. Right now i have total faith in them. But 10years down the road. Will everything change?
Am very optimistic about the people i have around me at the moment. 2 Years back i once told people that church friends are life long friends. But as i'm getting older ,It's totally not true. Some of them come looking for me only when they need help.
When i seek help, Rejection is all i got in return. Friends choose who they want to be with and not just me choosing them. As i see the ugly side of the world more and more in my workplace and cliques.
Like the rich mixing with the rich , The Smart mixing with the smart and so on.
But what i could do is to build relationship with them. Like one of the sermons preach in Church years back. Not expecting anything in returns. Give it your best and leave everything in God mighty hands. God is the ultimate friend who comes and never go that's for sure.
As stated by "Don moen - God is good"
'Cause He's promised to never leave you
Nor forsake you and His Word is true "
Sometimes it may sound hypocrite but it's time to face the ugly truth of mankind.
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